Team Communication
Effective communication is what transforms a group of individuals into a team. In pétanque, where strategy shifts constantly and pressure runs high, how you communicate can determine the outcome.
The Big Idea
Communication is what transforms individuals into a team. Clear, specific, and supportive communication under pressure separates good teams from great ones.
The Communication Cycle
Good team communication follows a cycle:
| Step | Action | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Observe | Notice what's happening | Terrain, positions, opponents |
| Share | Tell teammates what you see | "The ground slopes left there" |
| Discuss | Exchange perspectives | "Should I block or go for point?" |
| Decide | Agree on approach | "Let's try the high lob" |
| Execute | Do it with commitment | Full focus on the throw |
| Review | Learn from result | "That worked well" or "Next time..." |
When to Communicate
Before Each End
- Assess the terrain together
- Discuss general approach
- Clarify who's throwing when
- Set the tone (calm, focused)
During the End
- Share observations ("The ground slopes left there")
- Coordinate strategy ("Should I try to block or go for the point?")
- Offer support ("Take your time, you've got this")
- Adjust plans as situation changes
Between Ends
- Quick debrief (what worked, what didn't)
- Reset mentally
- Prepare for next end
- Stay connected as a team
After the Game
- Full debrief (when appropriate)
- Acknowledge contributions
- Identify learnings
- Maintain relationship
How to Communicate
Be Clear and Specific
Vague: "Try to get close" Clear: "Aim for the left side of the jack, about 20cm out"
Vague: "Nice try" Clear: "Good weight, just a bit left of line"
Be Constructive
Focus on solutions, not problems:
Problem-focused: "You keep missing to the right" Solution-focused: "Maybe try aiming a bit more left to compensate?"
Be Supportive
Your tone matters as much as your words:
- Stay calm, even when frustrated
- Use encouraging body language
- Acknowledge effort, not just results
- Build up, don't tear down
Listen Actively
Communication is two-way:
- Give full attention when teammates speak
- Ask clarifying questions
- Acknowledge what you've heard
- Don't interrupt or dismiss
Communication Challenges
Disagreement on Strategy
Poor approach:
- Insist on your way
- Get defensive
- Give in resentfully
- Argue during the game
Better approach:
- Share your perspective clearly
- Listen to theirs fully
- Discuss pros and cons briefly
- Decide together (or defer to designated leader)
- Commit fully to the decision
- Review after the game
After a Teammate's Mistake
What they need:
- Quick acknowledgment
- Permission to move on
- Confidence that you still trust them
- Focus on the next throw
What to say:
- "No problem, next one"
- "Tough break, you've got the next"
- "We're still in this"
- Sometimes just a nod or pat is enough
What NOT to say:
- Nothing (silence feels like judgment)
- "It's okay" (can sound dismissive)
- Anything about what went wrong (not now)
- Visible frustration (body language counts)
When You Make a Mistake
What to do:
- Brief acknowledgment ("My bad")
- Don't over-apologize
- Don't make excuses
- Reset and focus on next throw
- Trust your teammates to support you
Tension in the Team
If tension builds during a game:
- Recognize it's happening
- Take a breath before responding
- Focus on the game, not the conflict
- Address it properly after the game
- Don't let it affect your play
Non-Verbal Communication
Much of team communication is non-verbal:
Positive Signals
- Eye contact
- Nodding
- Thumbs up
- Relaxed posture
- Moving toward teammates
- Smiling (when appropriate)
Negative Signals (Avoid These)
- Eye rolling
- Turning away
- Crossed arms
- Sighing
- Shaking head
- Tense body language
Remember: Your teammates see everything. Your body language affects their confidence and performance.
Building Communication Habits
Practice Communication
Don't wait for competition to communicate:
- Practice strategic discussions in training
- Give each other feedback regularly
- Develop your team language
- Build comfort with honest conversation
Develop Team Signals
Some teams develop shorthand:
- Hand signals for strategy
- Code words for situations
- Quick phrases with shared meaning
Regular Check-ins
Outside of games:
- How are we working together?
- What's going well?
- What could be better?
- Any issues to address?
The Captain's Role
If your team has a designated leader:
Captain responsibilities:
- Final decision when team disagrees
- Setting the tone and energy
- Managing team dynamics
- Keeping focus during pressure
Everyone else:
- Share your perspective
- Support the decision once made
- Help maintain team energy
- Take responsibility for your role
Key Takeaway
Great teams talk to each other, not about each other. They communicate with honesty, respect, and a shared commitment to success.
Practice communication like you practice throwing. It's a skill that improves with attention.